I recommend these two books to all of the parents with whom I work. The information in each is valuable in helping our children grow into self-disciplined adults. If we, as parents, take the time to truly listen to our children and work to become emotionally responsive to them, while creating a safe and secure environment for them to express emotion, we will see them begin to learn how to self-regulate their emotions and behaviors. Please watch the short video below to get the truncated summary of the book, No Drama Discipline, from one of the authors, Tina Payne Bryson, Ph.D.
I care about people and that just about covers it.